When He Doesn't Love You Anymore!!!

You have noticed that he doesn’t bother calling like he used to. And to make things worse, he deliberately doesn’t pick your calls. Anytime you try to reach him with a different number he picks up the call with enthusiasm and when he realizes it is you on the phone he tells you he is busy (or an excuse of some sorts). You keep asking yourself why he has decided to go on with the relationship while he treats you like you don’t exist.

You conjure all kinds of excuses for his recent attitude, like he is too busy to call and all that. I have been in a lot of stress myself and in the midst of it, all I still looked forward to some words of comfort from my man. So, too busy is so not an excuse except of course he is busy with some other lady.

It could be really heartbroken when you discover that the one man who in the past had pledged undying love to you now treats you like he never had an iota of feelings for you. Worse still is that he has refused to break off the relationship so you can just forge on with your life.

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH A LOVELESS RELATIONSHIP?

The solution to a loveless relationship depends greatly on two factors:

• Do you still love him and would mind fighting for things to get back to the way they were?

OR

• Do you feel like you have had enough of his misdemeanor and just want to let go?

Well if your answer is yes to the latter Question, then these steps will help in letting go.
1. Sit back and meditate on all your positive attributes. Think of all the wonderful gifts you possess that your soon to be ex is going to miss out on. It could be your delicious cooking or your good sense of humor. You could pen it down and put it in a place where you see it every time. E.g. by your bed.
2. Think of these attributes again and smile at the brand new beginning of life you are about to lead.
3. Gather up everything that reminds you of him. From his pictures, cologne and his love letters to you. Put all items in a bag and dump the refuse can. Remember good riddance to bad rubbish.
4. Now that you have rid yourself of all memorabilia you have of him, go out and buy yourself some new stuff. Get something really sexy and begin partying again.

Remember don’t fall in love too quickly. Just enjoy your new found singleness and enjoy the attention you get from each date.
5. Don’t look for a duplicate of the man you just split with. Starting anew is giving up any memories you have of him.
There are lots of other things you can engage in to help you through the heartaches like registering in a dance class but just let the above steps guide you. You will be great in no time at all.